Julien's Juice 534 ~ May the bridges I burn light the way

Sounds lovely

Hello. Rains like mad. Been doing this and that, right now I am at folks. Tomorrow going back to my place and start getting ready for Sunday and the festival.

what festival?

Its called Jurassic rock. It starts today but I am going on Sunday and spend a night there.

Jurassic rock? is it full old ageing guitar players?  

lol! No, not that old actually. I am going there for System of a Down.

I love how two days ago I go to shoesforcrews website to look at new work shoes for myself. I didnt order anything yet though, but now ads for this website are constantly appearing on facebook, on here, and on yahoo. grrrrrrr

Sheila O wrote:

Michele, he shouldn't be out until 6 in the fucking morning in the first place. And I personally don't think a married man should be going to strip clubs except on a special occasion like a bachelor party or some such thing.

But it is VERY common for couples to have exactly this sort of trouble during their early married life as they haven't entered a comfort zone with each other and are not used to having to answer for their behavior to a spouse. He likely is just used to doing this and not having to explain himself.

Have you deciphered the Spanish texts he sent you? If you need some help, I can give it a try. I know un poco Espanol.

he doesnt go to strip clubs but I tell him that he can if he wants, I dont have a problem with it. He doesnt even like porn so I dont think he would make a habit of going regularly. If he is drinking then I would rather he sleep it off for a few hours and come home at 6am than driving home drunk.

I did decipher them. The first one he said "I am kidnapped" the second one didnt make much sense something about he has to pay but his friends dont and something else which just didnt make sense, clearly he was drunk when he wrote it

Judge Jane wrote:

In my relationship it feels more controlling than I am used to. He likes to know where I am all the time. He worries if I don't text back pretty soon....like at work I now tell him if I'm going into a long meeting because in the past I've returned to 2 or 3 texts asking if I'm ok..... He likes me to text when I get to work and when I get home so he knows I'm ok..... But he does the same thing for me also. He says where he is, and he tells me when he will be home, without me having to prompt him. So I don't mind it. It's just very different to the silence I was used to.

my husband is like that too, he is always texting me asking me where I am, at least twice a day. If he calls me and I cant answer my phone, he will call me like 5 more times over a 5 minute period then he leaves me panicked messages freaking out why I am not answering my phone. It never seems to occur to him that I could be in the bathroom, or with a client at work, or maybe my phone is on silent and didnt know that it rang....anything.

tonight is my final night of training at my new restaurant/s (the guy owns 3 and I have to train at all 3) the other two are casual fine dining, and this one I am going to tonight is real fine dining, so I am most nervous about this one. But most likely i wont be working at this one. I just cant wait to be done the training and to finally start making tips again!

Going to see Elysium tonight!

I got my nails done today.....

Morning everyone.

 

Afternoon!

Been to hairdresser today, I now have a longish bob!! Shorter at the back into my neck and then gradually longer all the way round....feels so different!

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If he calls me and I cant answer my phone, he will call me like 5 more times over a 5 minute period then he leaves me panicked messages freaking out why I am not answering my phone.

That would drive me mad. I often leave my cell home or forget to check it out so it could be hours, sometimes the next day when I feel like answering.  

That sounds nice jane. I had mine like that once but it was a pain to keep the back sorted cos my hair grows so fast

Spent the day playing croquet...actually rather fun. We had a picnic outside and now my brother and his girlfriend are coming over for a bbq.

I hate to say this but I am absolutely dreading my "boyfriend's" visit next weekend. The kids leave on Friday and then I have to head down and spend the next few days with him at the Ritz. It sounds like it should be fun but he's such a pain in the ass. He's constantly on about how amazing I am and how much he loves me (I know it sounds as though I shouldnt be complaining, right, but his feelings , if he can even be believed, are very out of proportion to my own toward him). It's a constant expenditure of energy to try to respond . I just wish he'd just shut up already!

A friend of mine who met him told me he reminds him of the character Kenneth Brannagh plays in the Harry Potter movies...very vain, egotistical and phoney and I can`t seem to shake the image because I think it hits the nail on the head.

Gilderoy lockheart :) i understand how you feel sheila, apart from craig and theo i cant stand to be around the same people for more than a few days in a row, its too much energy to deal with their shit lol

So I'm not the only anti-social bitch around this joint, Alondria? Good! Lol.

Jane, did the pill make you gain weight at all? I recently went on Tricyclen lo and I have packed on a few. I don't know if it's water weight or what. I don't think I've been eating more than usual.... 

Gilderoy Lockheart... Ah I'd been longing to find another derogatory moniker for my latest beau and now I have one! Yes there is a reason that I don't stay with one man for longer than a few months...

No it didn't Sheila, if anything I lost weight since I started it....but that is for other reasons, worry and forgetting to eat sometimes! I'm hopefully putting some back on now

I am on a new pill too. This is the third I am trying out. I know e-pills are bad for you but if they only would work without too many problems, I would so continue using them.

 

Festival today. I am going to make us (date and me) some lunch and then a 1.5 hour drive to Mikkeli. We are spending a night there. Should be interesting as we haven't had time to spent that much time together yet.