me and my husband have never ever actually had an arguement. However, this doesnt mean we dont have probllems or havent had problems. When we have problems with each other, we never raise our voices and never call each other names or hurl insults. So I think that is good, however we dont know how to fully communicate properly in a way that we are able to understand the other's behavior.
I am reading this book called "How We Love" and it is AMAZING! It is really helping me to understand both my husband's love style and mine so that we can learn to understand each other better and communicate our needs more effectively. I am slowly working on the things in the book with my husband, little by little. So far we are making good progress.